Questions to Ask a Quiet Child

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“Want to whisper it or write it?”

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“Can you give me a thumbs up, down, or sideways for your day?”

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“Text me if that's easier.”

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“Want to tell me one tiny thing from today?”

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“Is now a good time to talk, or later?”

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“Want me to ask, or would you rather just hang out?”

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“What's something you're into that I don't know much about?”

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“What's your favorite thing we did together this week?”

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“What did you notice outside today that I missed?”

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“What's a song or show you've been into lately?”

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“Tell me something random about your day.”

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“Did anything feel too loud or too hard today?”

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“What helped you feel calm today?”

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“What do you need more of right now — quiet, company, or a hug?”

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“Is there anything you want me to understand?”

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“What would make tomorrow feel easier?”

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“What makes you feel like I really hear you?”

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“When do you feel most comfortable talking?”

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“What do you wish I asked you more often?”

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“What's something small you want me to know?”

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“How can I be easier to talk to?”